Parenting is hard enough without having the right tools to stay calm when the shift hits the fan
(or whatever your kids are throwing at it today!)
INTRODUCING… THE RAMP your PARENTING Guide to Self-Coaching and Emotional Regulation As a Parent…
As good as your parents might have been, they probably didn’t fully understand why they were so good, or how to prepare you for the unexpected: Children in 2024!
And if your parents are still the cause of your triggers and sporadic behaviour, (like one of mine was for a long, long, long long time!) who knows what you learned and may still think, “well, this is how my parents did it and look at me”!!
When you know how to self-regulate and self-coach as a parent (we take on different roles so need different skills!), why you have the reactions you do, and how to stay calm and keep your wits about you when your kids seem like they belong in an episode of Star Trek; you can find some inner peace and be able to give yourself a pat on the back for doing a good job. At least for one day!
This ebook is based on my other book “BE”, which cover the BE elements for understanding emotions, triggers and behaviour, and the RAMP-IT Framework, which covers how to be the person who sets themselves up for more successes than setbacks.
Written specifically for parenting, this ebook covers a lot about who you can be, and respond as a parent. This is not a book about reactionary tactics, or why you should have certain emotions when your kids don’t do as they are asked.
This is a book that helps you become the person you want to be. The person your kids will respond to instead of react to, and the person who gets more done because you are spending less time worrying about how to react, and can spend more time be-ing: calm, in control of yourself, and clear on who you want and need to be.
Coming from someone (me) who failed spectacularly as a father in many situations, but not all of them, this is real world self-coaching advice that will change the way you look at your past, your parents, yourself and your kids.
When I changed, my kids changed. I thought my son would never talk to me again a few short years ago. Now, we talk almost every day. And he tells me he loves me all the time, and appreciates me.
My daughter is definitely my daughter. Headstrong, smart, defiant and stubborn. I helped create that, and it took both of us understanding what’s in here, and using it, to go from butting heads to forming an unbreakable bond that I am thankful for every day. She makes me laugh, cry and think, often in the same 5-minute conversation!
Here is part of the table of contents so you can see it’s not just a bunch of fluff. I don’t hold back:
And there’s more, including more chapters, a workbook with the exercises and questions from the book for easy reference, and I’ll be adding mini coaching guides on a variety of topics that you can also ask for! I want this to be easier for you to find answers, calm and a way forward that helps you and your children have the relationship you both want.
AND you get instant access to the STOP, BE RAMPIT training video that explains the foundation of the BE Elements and RAMPIT Framework. Watch it by yourself or, to get the most out of all of this, watch it with your kids and / or partner!
And you now also get a PDF showing how to apply all the Considerations from my first book, There’s a Reason For That, to parenting. That alone is worth $27!
I could talk about this all day, however I know the best way to explain this is in the ebook. Get the RAMP your Parenting ebook and all the bonuses for only $27 today.
Get the RAMP your Parenting ebook now!
Hi, I’m Nolan, an experienced trainer, dancer, massage therapist, oh, and an emotional regulation trainer, mentor and author. And I ride a motorbike with funky helmet covers to make kids (of all ages) smile!
In 2005, I hit rock bottom, losing it all and wasn’t self-aware enough to know why, and ended up living in a motel with my wife and kids. Fast forward to now, and life’s a whole different story – I travel with an amazing partner, run a growing business, and write books to help people like us navigate life’s ups and downs faster and easier. I’ve been there, through successes and setbacks, battling procrastination and feeling like an imposter as a business owner, partner and father, at times struggling to finish anything I started.
It all changed when I learned to let go and regulate my emotions, no matter what happened. I became less reactive, more responsive, calmer, more open to my partner and children’s needs, more productive, and more efficient.
Strangely enough, everyone around me seemed to change too. I stopped putting the responsibility on them to change or understand me and started learning about myself and making tiny changes to the way I perceived everything.
I’m all about sharing what I’ve learned so you can skip the endless self-help marathons and get straight to the good stuff – taking charge of your happiness and success. I’ve had the privilege of guiding thousands to brighter places in their lives as a trainer in different industries, and now, I’m focused on showing you the quickest, most effective way to leap from where you are to where you want to be. Let’s make this journey together, transforming those shifts and the shit into your greatest victories.
